It is often said that the flowers at a wedding were “As pretty as a picture” and they remain so captured in the photographic images forever. But, as it is also said: “A picture paints a thousand words…” so what might your flowers be saying about you?
Think carefully about what kind of a statement you want to make: “This is me and this is my big day and I’m going to be beautiful and enjoy it.” Or “Hey guys, lets have some fun, be wacky, enjoy ourselves and CELEBRATE!” Or perhaps: “This is the coolest, most sophisticated wedding you will ever have been to.” The dress, the bridesmaids, venue and the music all come together to help you make that statement but the one area in which you can really demonstrate yourself and your individual style is through your flowers.
But how well do you know your florist, or does he/she know you? The more they know about you, your likes and dislikes and what makes you tick, your favourite colours and materials, the more likely you are to be able to work with them to reproduce your style and personality within your wedding flowers.
What sort of a flower person are you? Your personality should always be reflected within your choice of wedding flowers and, surprisingly enough, similar personality types will chose similar flowers – but the better you get to know your florist the more they will be able to recognise in you what types of flowers are going to suit your taste and make constructive suggestions.
The ‘Artistic’ Bride
An artistic type of personality will be creative and take pleasure in the unconventional, perhaps enjoy travelling, museum and theatrical productions. They are often found searching for personal betterment and will be attracted to anything from new age to the arts. Most usual choice of flowers for this type of person are exotic varieties in unusual colours, such as Orchids, Lisianthus, Calla Lillies, Hypericum, Roses, Gerbera, Anthiriums . People from this category usually want a designer bouquet, unique to them, never seen before, often including within it willow constructions (wooden cages or framework around which the bouquet is made) or bold use of Aluminium wire for a more contemporary look.
The ‘Romantic’ Bride
A romantic on the other hand is often a generous, spontaneous, possibly extravagant individual who dreams of a fairy tale wedding – with flowers everywhere. Shades of white or pastel colours are favourites within this group, light fragrances often accented with lace or ribbons and intricate jewelled detailing. Brides from this group love to see lots of flowers, cascading pedestal arrangements are favourites, as are petals sprinkled on their tables. Increasingly popular within this group are the types of bouquet where you have petals within a central framework and when the bride throws the bouquet her guests are showered with the petals. These brides love their flower girls to throw petals in front of her as she makes her way through her guests.
The ‘Natural’ Bride
Preferring a wide mixture of flowers and materials, the natural girl is very casual and down-to-earth. In her bouquet you will find lots of natural materials – wood, different types of foliage mixed together, lots of different types or varieties of flowers, buds and berries. A lover of life and the outdoors, she loves a ‘just picked from the garden’ feel to her flowers. Asters, spray Roses, Tulips, Delphiniums, Carnations, Hyacinths, Lisianthus, Muscari and Ivy are all favourites. Her table centres are likely be full and generous miniature gardens.
The ‘Traditional’ Bride
A traditional bride on the other hand will choose flowers which illustrate her trustworthy, family-orientated, classical sense of style. She appreciates lush arrangements with a limited variety of flowers. Long stemmed Lilies and Roses are popular choices for larger bouquets. Carnations and Chrysanthemums are often seen in table arrangements of this person.
The ‘Contemporary’ Bride
Brides who prefer a contemporary style to their flowers are often seen as ‘cutting edge trend setters’ who enjoy living life to the full and very much for the moment. Often impulsive, they pride themselves on knowing the most ‘in vogue’ trends before everyone else. Loving to be the centre of attention these personalities will choose bold colours and arrangements with contemporary containers in order to ‘make their statement’. Anthiriums, Bird of Paradise Flowers, Heliconia, Amaranthus and Orchids are all popular choice with these brides.
Whatever your individual personality type and style, the better you get to know your florist the more he/she is going to be able to help you to make your statement with as much impact as possible. So, whether you want to be as subtle as the English Rose itself or as bright as a Sunflower, take time out of your busy pre-wedding schedule and get closer to your florist!
As Yorkshire Wedding Photographers we do see the work of a great variety of different florists in the region. Choose your florist not just on price but also, where possible on personal recommendation.

Thanks for good article. Hope to see more soon.
Thank you – keep watching this space!
How Are You?
Just arrived on your site while looking on concrete and construction. It’s a horrible situation, this economy that we all seem to sink with it with.
Anyway, I just installed this web browser, Opera, Firefox, Mozzila, Safari and I have to find a way to subscribe to your site here, but I get some strange message when I hit the feed button. Any Ideas?
Ciao
Sorry – I don’t know how the feed buttons work. These are the only ones I seem to be able to set up in the dashboard though. I’m not very technical with Word Press!
Intimately, the article is in reality the best on this noteworthy topic. I fit in with your conclusions and will eagerly look forward to your future updates. Saying thanks will not just be enough, for the fantasti c lucidity in your writing. I will immediately grab your rss feed to stay abreast of any updates. Gratifying work and much success in your business efforts!
Thank you for your kind words – most appreciated.
Nice Information! I personally really enjoy your writing. This is a great website. I will make sure that I stop back again!.
Thank you! I look forward to seeing you back here!
Interesting blog you got here but I can’t seem to find the RSS button.
I can’t see any other feed buttons other than the two on the top right hand side of the blog. I think you can subscribe to it or follow it though. Sorry I’m not very technical on Word Press things!
Hey really nice weblog!! Man .. Beautiful .. Incredible .. I will bookmark your web log properly get genuine feeds also…
Thank you!
This is a really good read for me, Must admit that you are one of the best bloggers I ever saw.Thanks for posting this informative article.
Thank you – that’s really kind of you to say.
Thank you for the sensible critique. Me & my neighbour were preparing to do some research about that. We got a good book on that matter from our local library and most books where not as influensive as your information. I am very glad to see such information which I was searching for a long time.This made very glad!
I heard something about this last week on a global news program.
This is such a great resource that you are providing and you give it away for free. I love seeing websites that understand the value of providing a quality resource for free. It?s the old what goes around comes around routine. Did you acquired lots of links and I see lots of trackbacks??
Thanks for your comments, and yes we do get a lot of backlinks. Karma is good !
I literally would like to get out and about a good deal more as well as stop just spending the majority of of my daytime on the net since in recent times i have been not been able to read in regard to this. Although I find it difficult to claim that I 100% agree with every last expression, it’s good to browse some clever posts as a substitute for the normal junk I unearth flying round the net.
I would like to thank you for the efforts you have made in writing this article. I am hoping the same best work from you in the future as well and i have start my own blog now, it’s about wedding flower arrangement, thanks for your effort
hi guys…
I would like to thank you for the efforts you have made in writing this article. I am hoping the same best work from you in the future as well and i have start my own blog now, wedding flower arrangement, thanks for your effort…
Thanks for your kind comments – most appreciated!
This is such a great resource that you are providing and you give it away for free. I love seeing websites that understand the value of providing a quality resource for free. It?s the old what goes around comes around routine. Did you acquired lots of links and I see lots of trackbacks??
You made some good points there. I did a search on the topic and found most people will agree with your blog.
You certainly deserve a round of applause for your post and more specifically, your blog in general. Very high quality material
Best you could edit the page name They May Be “As Pretty As A Picture” But What Are Your Flowers Saying About You? Yorkshire Wedding Photographer, Harrogate to something more catching for your webpage you write. I enjoyed the post nevertheless.
Thanks for the advice, this particular post has been published in several UK magazines and gained us exposure that way too so for now we’ll leave it as it is but I know what you are saying